Anxiety,Social Anxiety - Removing social anxiety - Stop worrying what a hot woman or your boss thinks of you
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Removing social anxiety - Stop worrying what a hot woman or your boss thinks of you
Views from a pua instructor:
When you see a beautiful sexy woman do you start to act a little bit differently, does your heart beat get a little faster, do your pupils dilate, you might start to sweat a little, is your sub communication a bit off, are you behaving in your normal natural way. Any of these things will provide a sure fire way of KILLING attraction dead and the girl will walk off.
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Are you able to completely be yourself despite the obvious replication value that this girl is presenting to you? If not read on
Having some form of approach / social anxiety affects 90% of us, this keeps us from meeting the people we want to meet and being our best selves. How do you talk with your boss? Do you find that you are thinking more than you normally would do about what to say? That hot girl that lives across the road are you able to be completely confident and comfortable talking with her?
For the 90% of us who haven't learnt how to overcome this the answer is NO.
Both your boss and an attractive girl offer value to you, your boss offers you a lot of survival value and without the salary you receive from him you wouldn't be able to pay the bills. So it's only natural that you don't want to say anything stupid that would jeopardise your wealth.
That said though how often do you say stupid things to your best friend or your little sister? Never. Because you are not managing what you are saying, you are being completely natural and real and so the communication between the two of you is always more fun and authentic.
If you implement the following steps they will help you re-wire your brain so that you aren't focusing on what value they are offering you. Instead you will be coming from a place of "I have a lot of opportunities in my life to meet hot girls, I've met a lot of cool people before and so although ill be polite and nice I'm looking to see if you are any different from the rest".
Step One: Surround yourself with hot girls - Invite girls out to go clubbing with you, frequent strip clubs *yes this can be done in a cheap way, ill go into strip club game in another post*, approach as many hot girls as possible, if there are attractive girls at work make conversation with them when you can, try to go to places where hot girls are more likely to go *no irish pubs or old man pubs*. The more you get used to being in the company of hot girls the less intimidating you will find it, until you get to the point its just normal.
Step Two: Re-align your value system - If you find talking to hot girls in anyway makes your more nervous or uncomfortable then you are still operating on a social conditioned map of the world. In society we are lead to believe that we aren't worthy of hot girls unless we have money, clothes, looks etc This is completely untrue and simply what Music Television wants us to believe so they can promote their products. You should have a binary system meaning that you either would or your wouldn't want sexual relations with the girl in question. If you would then give her a HB7 scale, I say that again all girls that you would have sex with become an HB7.
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- Relieve Irritability and Anxiety
- Stop Anxiety!
- 100% safe. No side effects
- Naturally Balance Your Brain Chemistry
- Feel great all day every day
- Prevent panic attacks
User Ratings 4.9 / 5 |
A girl can only increase her rating by demonstrating value to YOU, this can be done in the form of investment. Things like buying you a drink, making you laugh, having something in common with you, doing something nice for you, being sexually open minded etc Only then can you start talking about her being higher than an HB7 or bragging about it on the forums. If you are operating on a purely looks scale then you are never going to get your HB9's or HB10's unless you are in fact an HB10 yourself and you truly believe it based on a social conditioned view of the world.
Step Three: Accept the fact that whatever happens, happens. You will get many opportunities in life and realistically nothing is actually that important. If you lose you job then you can get another one, if this girl doesn't like you then who cares? Ironically this mindset will just attract more possibilities into your life and when you are able be yourself around 'higher value' people it will open up so many new doors to you.
A top pua doesn't view hot girls as any different from any other girls or people, they still respect the fact that they go to the toilet and fart like everybody else. They are looking at the depth of the person, is she sexually open minded, is she fun, does her feminine energy turn you on, is she what you are looking for in a woman other than the surface level of tits and bum.
There are many beautiful girls, ill chat with her to see if she is different from the rest ;-)
Peace and Love,
Kingy
Dee Rouse
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